What If I Did the Opposite?
Dear Readers,
It is a pleasure to be in touch with you again. Thank you for the opportunity to share.
I have been contemplating a serious question over the past several years, which I’ve put to the test, albeit cautiously since then. But it isn’t until recently that I have decided to push its limits. What if I did the opposite? A question I borrowed from the 4‑Hour Work Week.
“Everything popular is wrong.” Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest
I’ll share one of several examples where doing the opposite of what most are doing has worked in my favor.
A few years ago I wanted a high paying job where I could achieve results in one ‑tenth of the time from home or anywhere there’s internet. Many thought this was unlikely to happen. They said, sure, a low paying, low-skill job, perhaps, but not one that will pay you over six figures, give you full benefits and also pay for several of your home utility bills. But it was what I wanted and I kept obsessing about it. Today, this is my reality and I’ve been doing it for almost two years. I enjoy working with my colleagues remotely and it’s allotted me time to work on other projects and do more fulfilling work. I’m having a blast working on my “side-hustle” because I don’t feel the pressure I once had to make money since I already have the security of a regular paycheck. Funny how when you’re not desperate to sell something, people want to buy. And so it’s been marvelous.
But now I’m ready to raise the bar and continue to push the limits of this fundamental question: What if i did the opposite? I mean, what is the worst that can happen if I attempt _____? What is the worst-case scenario? What am I afraid of? Now here’s a fun question: what is the best case-scenario? Huge life-changing upside potential, and I can always resume my previous course.
So my dear readers: when you think about your retirement, do you want to continue doing what you’re doing now for the next 30–40 years? Don’t save it till the end. Do work that’s fulfilling now. Take mini-retirements now, as Tim Ferriss, author of the 4‑Hour Work Week suggests. Conditions are never perfect. “Someday is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you.”
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